False Accusations

Some of the things being said about me are outrageous and I have no way to defend against false accusations and malicious statements except for this weblog. There's no contact between me and the whoever is saying what's being said about me. There's no way for me to respond directly to what's being said. I loathe having to to talk about personal private matters. All the intrusions into my private life are completely unwanted, they're intrusions I hope to have prosecuted. The only reason I'm talking about some of these things on this weblog is to counter some of the animosity generated by the outrageous statements and accusations being made. I think the intrusion into my private life and some of the sexual things being said are really outrageous.

Years ago I told a woman I was in a relationship with something about a childhood friend who was sexually abused. I tried to make clear that what happened was the result of sexual abuse. I've always know it was the result of sexual abuse, as a child my mom actually told me about a specific incident. I remember being upset while telling her about it. What was said I think was said in the context of other discussions we had about our childhoods. She had a lot of positive memories about her childhood, mine were not so good. That was really one of the not so good memories. I was in a sexual relationship with this woman for a long time, I never would have suspected that she would think I was gay or anything other than what I intended to communicate about it. I thought what I meant was understood and nothing else was ever said about it after that.

There are accusations related to what was said to that woman all those years ago. Whoever is making those accusations wasn't there when I said what I said to her, it was said years before he/she/them could have heard about it. Nobody ever asked me what happened or what I think about it. So there are things that the accuser couldn't possibly know about my statements, the context those statements were made in, what really happened or what I thought about what happened. I know that some of the people reading this will know about what was said by the people making accusations. Those readers can compare what was said to my version of events and decide for themselves why the false accusations and statements were made.

Anyone interested can always contact me by email or leave a comment to this weblog post.